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AUTISM- LANGUAGE AND COMMUNICATION DEVELOPMENT

Posted by Autism Speaks Chief Science Officer Geri Dawson, PhD, and Autism Speaks Assistant Director for Dissemination Science Lauren Elder, PhD

This week, researchers published the hopeful findings that, even after age 4, many nonverbal children with autism eventually develop language.

Untuk sebab yang baik, keluarga, guru-guru dan lain-lain ingin tahu bagaimana mereka dapat menggalakkan perkembangan bahasa kanak-kanak bukan lisan atau remaja dengan autisme. Berita baik : kajian telah menghasilkan beberapa strategi yang berkesan.

But before we share our “top tips,” it’s important to remember that each person with autism is unique. Even with tremendous effort, a  strategy that works well with one child or teenager may not work with another.

And even though every person with autism can learn to communicate, it’s not always through spoken language. Nonverbal individuals with autism have much to contribute to society and can live fulfilling lives with the help of visual supports and assistive technologies.

Berikut ialah tujuh strategi utama bagi menggalakkan perkembangan bahasa kanak-kanak bukan lisan dan remaja dengan autisme:

1.    Encourage play and social interaction. Galakkan permainan dan interaksi sosial.

Kanak-kanak belajar melalui bermain termasuk pembelajaran bahasa. Permainan interaktif memberi peluang menyeronokkan untuk anda dan anak anda untuk berkomunikasi. Cuba pelbagai permainan yang anak anda gemari. Aktiviti menyeronokkan yang menggalakkan interaksi sosial juga boleh dicuba. Contohnya termasuk nyanyian, membaca sajak dan roughhousing lembut. Semasa interaksi kedudukan anda mestilah di hadapan anak dan berhampiran dengan paras mata anda - jadi ia lebih mudah untuk anak anda melihat dan mendengar anda.

2. Imitate your child. Meniru anak anda.

Meniru bunyi anak anda dan tingkah laku bermain akan menggalakkan lebih banyak pengeluaran suara dan interaksi. Ia juga menggalakkan anak anda untuk meniru anda dan bergilir-gilir. Pastikan anda meniru bagaimana anak anda bermain - selagi ia tingkah laku yang positif. Sebagai contoh, apabila anak anda menggelek kereta, anda juga menggelek kereta. Jika dia melagakan kereta sebagai tanda kemalangan, anda juga melakukanperkara yang sama. Tetapi jangan meniru perbuatan membuang kereta!

3. Focus on nonverbal communication. Memberi tumpuan kepada komunikasi bukan lisan.

Gerak tubuh dan hubungan mata dapat membina asas untuk bahasa. Galakkan anak anda dengan mengikut (modellling) dan bertindak balas terhadap perbuatan tersebut.  Membesar-besarkan (lakukan dengan bersungguh-sungguh) isyarat anda. Gunakan kedua-dua badan anda dan suara anda apabila berkomunikasi - sebagai contoh, mengguna tangan anda untuk menunjukkan apabila anda mengatakan "melihat" dan mengangguk-angguk kepala anda apabila anda mengatakan "ya." Gunakan gerak isyarat yang mudah untuk anak anda tiru. Contohnya termasuk bertepuk tangan, membuka tangan, mendekati senjata, dan lain-lain. Jawab isyarat anak anda: Apabila dia melihat atau mata mengarah kepada mainan, serahkannya kepada beliau atau mengambil petunjuk bagi anda untuk bermain dengannya. Begitu juga, tunjuk mainan yang anda mahu sebelum mengambilnya.

4. Leave “space” for your child to talk. Sediakan "ruang" untuk anak anda bercakap.

Ia adalah dorongan semulajadi untuk mengisi ruang bahasa apabila kanak-kanak tidak segera bertindak balas. Tetapi ia begitu penting untuk memberi anak anda lebih peluang untuk berkomunikasi, walaupun dia tidak bercakap. Apabila anda bertanya soalan atau melihat bahawa anak anda mahukan sesuatu, tunggu selama beberapa saat untuk memerhati tingkah lakunya. Perhatikan apa-apa bunyi atau pergerakan badan dan segera bertindak. Tindak balas segera dapat membantu anak berkomunikasi.

5. Simplify your language. Memudahkan bahasa anda. 

Berbuat demikian membantu anak anda mengikuti apa yang anda katakan. Ia juga memudahkan untuk dia meniru ucapan anda. Jika anak anda bukan lisan, gunakan banyak perkataan tunggal. (Jika dia bermain dengan bola, anda berkata "bola" atau "gelek.") Jika anak anda menggunakan perkataan tunggal, sehingga frasa. Bercakap dalam frasa pendek, seperti "gelek bola" atau "lambung bola." Amalkan "one-up" peraturan: Secara umumnya menggunakan frasa dengan satu perkataan lebih daripada anak anda gunakan.

6. Follow your child’s interests. Ikut kegemaran anak anda.

Bukan mengganggu tumpuan anak anda, tetapi ikut bersama-sama dengan kata-kata. Menggunakan peraturan “one-up”, menceritakan apa yang anak anda lakukan. Jika dia bermain dengan permainan pilih bentuk, anda mungkin menggunakan perkataan "dalam" apabila dia meletakkan bentuk dalam slot. Anda mungkin berkata "bentuk" apabila beliau memegang sesuatu bentuk. Dengan bercakap tentang apa yang melibatkan anak anda, anda akan membantu dia belajar perbendaharaan kata yang berkaitan.

7. Consider assistive devices and visual supports. Pertimbangkan alat-alat bantuan dan sokongan visual.

Teknologi dan sokongan visual boleh melakukan lebih daripada mengambil alih tempat perkataan. Mereka boleh memupuk perkembangannya. Contohnya termasuk peranti dan aplikasi dengan gambar-gambar yang anak anda sentuh untuk menghasilkan kata-kata. Pada tahap yang lebih mudah, sokongan visual boleh berbentuk gambar dan kumpulan gambar yang anak anda boleh gunakan untuk menunjukkan permintaan dan pemikirannya. Untuk panduan lanjut mengenai penggunaan sokongan visual, lihat Autism Speaks ATN/AIR-P Visual Supports Tool Kit.

Pakar terapi anak anda berkelayakan dan berkemahiran untuk membantu anda memilih dan menggunakan strategi ini dan lain-lain strategi yang sesuai untuk menggalakkan perkembangan bahasa. Maklumkan pakar terapi tentang kejayaan anda dan juga kesulitan yang anda alami. Dengan bekerjasama dengan pasukan intervensi anda boleh membantu memberikan sokongan yang diperlukan oleh anak anda untuk mencari "suaranya” yang unik.

Miss my kid..Hafizuddin. 

Translation from  http://www.autismspeaks.org

ZIARAH SAKIT DAN KEMATIAN

Ziarah Sakit & Kematian

2.1 Islam  menggalakkan  umatnya  (sunat)  supaya  menziarahi  orang  sedang sakit. Ini merupakan satu kebajikan masyarakat kepada pesakit dan melahirkan rasa simpati terhadap keluarga pesakit.
Maksud sabda Rasulullah s.a.w.:
"Dan apabila sakit hendaklah ziarahinya dan apabila meninggal dunia hendaklah menghantarnya ke kubur."                                                                                      
(Riwayat Bukhari)

2.2 Ziarah Kematian 
 Daripada Abu Hurairah r.a. katanya, Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda, maksudnya:
"Sesiapa yang hadir menziarah jenazah sehingga dia dapat menyembahyangkannya, maka baginya mendapat pahala sebuah gunung dan sesiapa hadir menziarah sehingga jenazah itu dikebumikan. Maka ia  mendapat pahala sebesar dua buah gunung."                                                                            
(Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim)

2.3 Tatasusila Semasa Menziarahi
i. Hendaklah melahirkan perasaan muhibbah, bersimpati dan bermanis muka ketika bercakap dengan pesakit atau keluarganya. Jangan sekali-kali mengeluarkan perkataan-perkataan yang boleh melukakan hatinya.

ii. Nasihatkan dia supaya bersabar, teguhkan iman dalam menghadapi ujian Qadha dan takdir Allah.

iii. Sunat berdoa supaya cepat sembuh dan panjang umur. Sewaktu Nabi s.a.w.menziarahi orang sakit baginda berdoa, maksudnya :

"Wahai Tuhan ! Manusia hapuskanlah penderitaan ini, sembuhkanlah, tidak ada penyembuh melainkan Engkau sahajalah berkuasa menyembuh tanpa meninggalkan kesan buruk."                                                                    
(Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim)

iv. Perlu juga para penziarah memahami situasi supaya jangan tunggu terlalu lama semasa membuat kunjungan.

v. Berwasiat kepada waris terdekat tentang hutang piutang pesakit yang belum dijelaskan.

vi. Jangan menghisap curut atau merokok semasa berhadapan dengan orang  sakit.

vii. Jangan berkumpul terlalu ramai sehingga kesesakan udara untuk bernafas.

viii. Jangan membuat bising dengan gelak ketawa melalui cerita-cerita lucu. Kita  harus ingat suasana majlis itu kesedihan.

*JAKIM*

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30 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself. #10 Is An Absolute Must.

Marc and Angel, two passionate writers, life-hackers and “admirers of the human spirit,” have come up with an amazing list of 30 things to stop doing to yourself. If you like their list, make sure you check out their site and sign up to their amazing newsletter.

#1. Stop spending time with the wrong people. – Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.  If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you.  You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot.  Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth.  And remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.

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#2. Stop running from your problems. – Face them head on.  No, it won’t be easy.  There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them.  We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems.  That’s not how we’re made.  In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall.  Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time.  This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.

#3. Stop lying to yourself. – You can lie to anyone else in the world, but you can’t lie to yourself.  Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves.

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#4. Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. – The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.  Yes, help others; but help yourself too.  If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.

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#5. Stop trying to be someone you’re not. – One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else.  Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you.  Don’t change so people will like you.  Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.

#6. Stop trying to hold onto the past. – You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.

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#7. Stop being scared to make a mistake. – Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing.  Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success.  You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.

#8. Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. – We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us.  We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past.  But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future.  Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.

#9. Stop trying to buy happiness. – Many of the things we desire are expensive.  But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.

#10. Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. – If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either.  You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else.

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#11. Stop being idle. – Don’t think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place.  Evaluate situations and take decisive action.  You cannot change what you refuse to confront.  Making progress involves risk.  Period!  You can’t make it to second base with your foot on first.

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#12. Stop thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises.  Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.

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#13. Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. – Relationships must be chosen wisely.  It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.  There’s no need to rush.  If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.

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#14. Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. – In life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet.  Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you.  But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.

#15. Stop trying to compete against everyone else. – Don’t worry about what others are doing better than you.  Concentrate on beating your own records every day.  Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.

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#16. Stop being jealous of others. – Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own.  Ask yourself this:  “What’s something I have that everyone wants?”

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#17. Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. – Life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you.  You may not see or understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough.  But reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past.  You’ll often see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or situation.  So smile!  Let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.

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#18. Stop holding grudges. – Don’t live your life with hate in your heart.  You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate.  Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.”  It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.”  Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself!  And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for you too.  If you must, forgive yourself, move on and try to do better next time.

#19. Stop letting others bring you down to their level. – Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.

#20. Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others. – Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway.  Just do what you know in your heart is right.

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#21. Stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break. – The time to take a deep breath is when you don’t have time for it.  If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.  Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.

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#22. Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. – Enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things.  The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.

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#23. Stop trying to make things perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.

#24. Stop following the path of least resistance. – Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile.  Don’t take the easy way out.  Do something extraordinary.

#25. Stop acting like everything is fine if it isn’t. – It’s okay to fall apart for a little while.  You don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well.  You shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears.  The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.

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#26. Stop blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life.  When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your life.

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#27. Stop trying to be everything to everyone. – Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out.  But making one person smile CAN change the world.  Maybe not the whole world, but their world.  So narrow your focus.

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#28. Stop worrying so much. – Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy.  One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time?  Three years?  Five years?”  If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.

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#29. Stop focusing on what you don’t want to happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen.  Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story.  If you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.

Credit: marcandangel.com#30. Stop being ungrateful. – No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life.  Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs.  Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing.

This is such a beautiful list, and we all are guilty of some of these. The best thing to do is just remember each day to appreciate and reflect a bit, even if it's only a few minutes. Share this amazing list by clicking below.

MENDIDIK ANAK

Mendidik anak sebagai HARTA di akhirat. InsyaAllah..anak-anak bekeperluan khas lebih-lebih lagi. 

“ Allah tidak membebani seseorang melainkan apa yang terdaya olehnya, ia mendapat pahala kebajikan yang diusahakannya dan ia juga menanggung dosa kejahatan yang dilakukannya…     

( Al-Baqarah: 286)

Anak bukanlah tempat untuk melepaskan marah dan geram. Malah merupakan harta yang tidak ternilai dalam pelaburan dunia dan akhirat.
 Seperti sabda Baginda Nabi Muhammad S.A.W;
 “apabila mati seseorang anak adam itu .. maka akan terhentilah segala amalanya kecuali 3 perkara iaitu sedakah jariah, ilmu yang bermanfaat serta DOA ANAK-ANAK YANG SOLEH”

Alhamdulillah. Even though I am not blessed with children, I have this amazing opportunities and challenges to be around my special kids. it's been a wonderful journey since I join Special Edu...Harapan dan doa semoga anak-anak didik saya merupakan harta saya di akhirat. Amin